The Perception Gap: Why You don't see yourself the way others see you

Feb 25, 2025

Today’s episode is about a topic that resonates with many of us - I’m calling it the perception gap. You might think of it as why we don't always see ourselves the way others do.

I’ll explain what causes this phenomenon, including our past identities, perfectionism, and blind spots arising from our inside-out perspective, and reveal powerful strategies to overcome self-critical patterns, channel your inner brilliance and step boldly into the future you deserve.

This episode will help you align your self-perception with reality so that you can shift confidently into your next chapter. Let's jump into this enlightening topic! 

Show Highlights:

• A new Brilliant Balance intro after seven years. [00:57]
• What is a perception gap? [04:43]
• Body dysmorphia and other indicators of perception gaps. [05:26]
• Are you stuck in an old identity? [10:25]
• How perfectionism distorts reality. [14:31]
• Explore the Johari window model. [17:40]
• The self-criticism and self-punishment cycle. [19:26]
• The power of practicing self-compassion. [20:20]
• Define your vision for success. [22:52]
• How to leverage an alter ego. [25:05]

Link to the episode with Todd Herman and the Alter Ego that Cherylanne References:
https://brilliant-balance.com/podcast/episode-177-channel-your-inner-superhero-with-author-todd-herman/

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