From Cynical to Curious - stop shutting the door on good opportunities

Mar 4, 2025

I'm excited to chat with you about something close to my heart today—the path from cynicism to curiosity. Are you someone who might be closing off opportunities without even realizing it? Let's explore how our default reactions can shape our paths and how a mindset of curiosity can open up a world of possibilities.

In this episode, we'll discuss how to ask the right questions and listen to our instincts, all while balancing discernment and enthusiasm for growth. Join me as we embrace the chance to design a future full of promise and opportunity!

Show Highlights:

• Are you a ‘default yes’ or a ‘default no’ person? [01:07]
• What is cynicism? [03:30]
• The costs of cynicism’s protective cage. [05:35]
• Cynicism’s closed door vs. skepticism’s guarded door. [10:39]
• Balancing healthy skepticism. [13:18]
• Retain the power of first mover advantage. [15:19]
• Develop intuitive decision-making. [16:12]
• How to lead with curiosity with discernment. [20:32]
• Explore curiosity and decision-making. [22:13]
• Overcome the two barriers to healthy curiosity. [25:19]

Link to the previous Brilliant Balance episode with Todd Herman where he shares the alter ego concept that Cherylanne references:
https://brilliant-balance.com/podcast/episode-177-channel-your-inner-superhero-with-author-todd-herman/

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